Rehab wasn’t a pleasant time for you. There were lots of obstacles and issues that you faced. You have been counting the days until they let you out and allowed you to get back to your own life at home. You were excited about getting home and being around the love and support of family and friends. This was supposed to be the next great phase of your life and you couldn’t wait but then something very serious occurred. You realized very quickly that you weren’t the only one interested in making decisions on the rest of your life.
You have now encountered a family member that things they know what’s best for you and aren’t afraid to tell you all about it. They are ready to make you better even if you have no desire to have their help. So the real issue is how do you deal with them and why are they doing this to you?
The truth is that they just care about you and want to see you get better. You can be mad at them but only a little bit. After all, had you been making good decisions the entire time you would have never been in the position you are in. This isn’t a blame game or about making you feel bad they just don’t want you to have to deal with making the same mistake again.
The best thing you can do is to tell them that while you love them and appreciate their health you cannot continue to let them call the shots. You would love to bounce the occasional life decision off them and let them know when you are looking for help but otherwise you have a life to lead and the best thing you can do is to lead it by yourself.





